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8 Different Sexual Positions to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom

Published January 31st, 2020 by Blog Team

The average person will have sex a little more than five thousand times in their entire lifetime.  

Now imagine having every one of those five thousand and something sexual encounters happening in the same old missionary style. A bit of a buzzkill to say the least. Life is routine enough, and sex is meant to help you break free from the monotony!

So the next time you and your partner are feeling particularly adventurous in the bedroom, here are 9 fun sexual positions that are sure to spice things up, and put an end to your boring old routine!

1. The Chair

The chair, the sofa, the any-place-you-can-sit. All you have to do for this one is find a comfortable place to sit and have your partner sit on you and straddle you. Your partner lowers herself onto you, almost like she would if she were in the cowgirl position, and take things at your own pace. 

Make sure the surface you choose is strong enough to support the weight of both of you to prevent any unnecessary injuries. 

2. The Reverse Cowgirl

The reverse cowgirl is a great position for any man who loves a woman on top. As the name suggests, the girl sits on top of you, like with the classic cowgirl position, except this time, her back is facing towards you. 

Your partner will still have to straddle you, while you lie on your back. Your partner can use their hands to steady themselves on either side and use their hips to thrust at a pace you are both comfortable with.

3. The Missionary Variation

Plain 'ol missionary might seem a little boring to some, but there's nothing a little variation can't fix. Think of it as the hot chocolate, or sprinkles to your vanilla. 

Now, in the same missionary position, experiment by raising your partner's leg on your shoulder, while keeping the other down. This can help achieve newer sensations for both of you! Try experimenting by raising an alternate leg, and see which position works best for the two of you. 

4. The Doggy Style Classic

If you haven't tried doggy style yet, it's about time you do. The way to do it is well, from behind. Have your partner bend over in front of you and position yourself behind them. 

Your partner could either be kneeling, leaning against a table or some other surface, or even holding on to some stairs if you place yourselves in the right position. You can enter your partner either through a standing position or kneeling position, depending on where you've chosen to do it.

For the most part, you'll be in control, so if things start to get a bit too hot, and you want to avoid any premature incidents, you can always slow things down when you need to. 

5. Together We Kneel

Kneeling sex is great because it allows for a very intimate experience with your partner. You can either try this with both of you kneeling and facing each other or the girl kneeling on the bed, facing the man. 

As you're kneeling your partner may find it more satisfying to also lean backwards, however, the key is experimentation. Similarly, you can also ask your partner to straddle you with one leg while kneeling on the other, allowing you to penetrate more easily. 

6. The Stand

Having sex standing up calls for a lot of stamina, so make sure the two of you aren't already tired before giving it a shot. It will involve you standing up, while your partner wraps her legs around your waist, while you hold her. 

You can make this position easier on yourself by holding her up against a wall, or even having her stand and raising just one leg instead. However, allowing her to straddle you with both legs, might make for a more intimate experience. 

7. The Viennese Oyster

The Viennese oyster requires a bit of flexibility from your partner, but if they're up to it, the two of you could be in for a great time. 

What you have to do is, have your partner on her back and raise both her legs straight up, aligned by her ears on either side of her head. The idea is for your partner's legs to be straight up above her, while you penetrate her. It's better to start things off a bit slow especially during the first time you try this out. 

8. The Spooner

This one is easy to figure out once you read the name. All you have to do is assume the usual spooning position, except this time you'll both be naked, and you'll be having sex. 

You could also try this out by having your partner bend forward like they're in doggy style, whilst still lying on their side. Alternatively, you could also lift your partners higher leg up onto your side, allowing you to thrust deeper and go much faster as well.

Talk to Your Partner About New Sexual Positions

The best way to go about making any new changes in the bedroom is to communicate with your partner. If you want to switch things up, be sure to talk to your partner about it. Who knows - they may have some great ideas for new sexual positions too. 

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